iSi ShauK kA imTihaAn ZiNdaGi Hai! | ईसी शौक का इम्तेहाँ ज़िन्दगी है

li'l antithetic look at LOVE. Love is generic and Pure only when SEX is not involved! any affair involving opposite gender with such mortal afflictions is kinda always very complicated. when u love someone so very deep, more than everything; u so very want to weep. Tears are one that come out, but it's ur heart that always goes out.  Love is so very like the river, always a free flow; tearing, fighting but alwyas giving. ... even the sunshine drags the drops out but thr is never a fight on pegging so many trouts. Love hurts, love give u pains, if u want sanity never ever fall for any so called gains. Do u say soulmate exists, ask urself and answers always acquiesce if you want to be accepted as trendy n cool,  don't fall for love or be an emotional fool! -ManTak

Read/ saw some important lessons on relationship and intimacy.. a presentation by Elizabeth Gilbert , author of Eat, Pray, Love.  Really worth a deep contemplation! The hedgehog's dilemma, or sometimes the porcupine dilemma, is an analogy about the challenges of human intimacy. It describes a situation in which a group of hedgehogs all seek to become close to one another in order to share their heat during cold weather. However, once accomplished, they cannot avoid hurting one another with their sharp quills. They must step away from one another. Though they all share the intention of a close reciprocal relationship, this may not occur for reasons which they cannot avoid. Both Schopenhauer and Freud have used this situation to describe what they feel is the state an individual will find themselves in relation to others. The hedgehog's dilemma suggests that despite goodwill, human intimacy cannot occur without substantial mutual harm, and what results is cautious behavior and