Highway of Emotional Involvements
I had this lesson learnt very early in my lyf to put-in the highest possible efforts to things that is aimed for! Today, I’ve realized that there exists a flip side to this theory.
Even at the deepest level of emotional involvements, a valid and equally important consideration remains; that of the reaction received, ..and that severely affects the interpersonal affairs.
May be that’s why chemistry comes in picture. There has to be a reaction.. and it decides the outcome!! It has to be rightly sighted and righteously accepted..
I have always believed in giving-out my best; in totality, to THINGS that I want in my lyf. THINGS never retorted to say if they ever wanted me.. thus being such a focused and comfortable ride, agony was pleasure too, because it was self induced!!
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But how have things changed when the same approach I tried using for the emotional involvements with PEOPLE.
But how have things changed when the same approach I tried using for the emotional involvements with PEOPLE.
Even at the deepest level of emotional involvements, a valid and equally important consideration remains; that of the reaction received, ..and that severely affects the interpersonal affairs.
May be that’s why chemistry comes in picture. There has to be a reaction.. and it decides the outcome!! It has to be rightly sighted and righteously accepted..
I am grateful to have experienced this and can proudly say, now, that there is more to the theory of ‘Interpersonal Cognitive Complexity’, than just an explanation to the morality of behaviour.
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