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Harshika   writes:  "What Happened to All the Nice Guys?" Something I found on a site and thought I should totally share it with you all. Unfortunately , most men and women would relate to it.  "I see this question posted with some regularity in the personals section, so I thought I'd take a minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven't figured it out.   What happened to all the nice guys? The answer is simple: you did. See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were fucking treated you. At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always foll...

Read a quote shared by my dear sir, Brigadier Naidu “It is a little embarrassing that, after 45 years of research and study, the best advice I can give to people is to be a little kinder to each other” - Aldous Huxley I am just curious if any one ever asked Mr. Huxley on how being kind and accepting can lead to a state of infliction! These kind of people are considered rare or rather extinct species and it is a general knowledge that whoever enacts such is a dumb and fool or may be far more dangerous. The mad Race that we are all in.. thr always remains a danger of meeting with accidents due to slightest of deviations.. The world has becm like dis whr distrust takes over any other form of humanitarian traits.  We are told from the childhood how important it's to mark oneself always ahead of the crowd. ...but When you are always ahead, you are also alone. How can kindness be shared in such a situation? I'm not sure if the cynic in me is taking over...! But I'm sure dis...

Life will always put you to test. It’s a friend’s shoulder that can give you some rest. Take your time to contemplate and ponder. Though, never loose base, where you get to wonder.. What is it that made me disconnected alone and aloof..? Why r my friends just not there as my roof..? Friendship makes your world full and alive. So, never ignore a chance to communicate.. As it makes the lyf all jovial, jolly n jive!

tujhase naaraaz nahi zindagi, hairaan hoon main o hairaan hoon main tere masoom savalon se pareshaan hooN main o pareshaan hoon main jeene ke liye socha hi na tha, dard sambhalane honge muskuraoon to, muskurane ke karz utaarne honge muskuraoon kabhi to lagata hai jaise hontonn pe karz rakhaa hai tujhase ... aaj agar bhar ayi hai, boondein baras jaayengi kal kya pata inke liye aakhen taras jayengi jaane kahan gum kahan khoya ek aansu chhupake rakha tha tujhase ... zindagi tere gum ne hamain rishte naye samajhaye mile jo hamain dhoop main mile chhaanv ke thande saaye... ..... .....

Soul Curry-timeslife. TOIM/2010/04/18 And they lived happily... NOW their story can be told... Gautam has returned home, cheerful and happily married. He has lost some hair though, and put on a few kilos. But that cannot be helped, after six months of sustained radiation and chemotherapy sessions. We were always worried about Gautam, not so much for his health as for his being perennially “accidentprone”. That was the expression my wife had reserved for him for the way he used to fall in and out of love. Women, no doubt, found him handsome and flipped for him at first sight. But having known him for over 20 years, I knew that for all his charming ways and dashing looks, he was actually an old-fashioned bloke and painfully self-righteous — a trait many of his girlfriends found rather off-putting. So when Sandhya walked out of an Internet portal and into his life, we were pleasantly surprised. They had a small engagement ceremony in Delhi. The marriage would be fixed once Sandhya g...

Had an evening that left me anxious n clouded enough.  One that compelled me to contemplate again with rather disheartened sense of being .  Seldom it happens, when lyf is driven by you and you control the events.  How naive I was when I used to think of it in affirmation. Still, I'm among the best of optimists. I will be like that... my very own choice . - you get it right.  Whenever it's inexplicable and complex like this..  it's matter related to  da heart; dat simply n in a jiffy  brings your head and the whole being to such a hap less m ess! 

Common sense and flawed emotion don’t always mix ...and this allows for the most unfathomable tendencies, you might laugh at someone for, to have a realistic basis. ...how do you really differentiate b/w DareDeviltry & FoolHardy (???)